ometimes you wonder, why can’t people be happy for the other when things are going good & smoothly for them.. instead sending regards and congratulating them, you would give a undesirable action as a result, it feels more sour to send them your regards so people would rather, sulk behind and think “oh yeah he’s better so what??”
I admit to this behaviour. But nevertheless, it is only right to buck yourself up and improve all the time..What results you get, if it’s good for you, good. If it’s bad for you, then improve.
An illness, if you eat spicy food for a sore throat, it would cause more inflammatory so why carry on?? Making yourself feel more pain because?& for what?
Solution? Heal the throat then eat spicy food, there will always be a given chance to you if you try and make it. (wonders if it made sense..)
The Human mind is complex. We would always think of ourselves first and there’s no deny that it’s not true. I do think about myself all the time, like what i want to do in my life, what i want to eat, what shall i do? who shall i marry? where shall i go today? what i want to cook etc.
There’ll seldom be a time when you think of a stranger/a friend“oh what will xxx be drinking right now, sleeping? what does he want in life?”
Simple, a stranger/a friend’s goals or decisions does not affect what you want.
A friendship is a companionship, it fills your life with colours when you meet them, laugh with them, talk to them.. They stay with you for a moment and teach you part of what their life has while you don’t. Part & parcel of life.
Whatever happens at work, is work. Despite the conflicts at work, eventually, as friends we would always laugh at funny things, gossiping.. talking heart to heart.
Likewise to a love relationship. When a couple comes together, don’t talk about work all the time! Talk about like what to do together, make plans for each other etc (whatever a couple does).
Put in effort in a relationship, a friendship, a family. Be committed if you treasure it, you want it.
I give my partial trust to almost everyone because I believe the goodness in them. However, sometimes, if you work together, the competition of work towards being the best, will sour the whole relationship.
Keep in support and trust each other.
We can’t blame anyone for this phenomena, it just happens.
It is the different point of view that we must try to understand and practice.
Oh! I’m tired! i slept on the floor last night.. jeez.. am must be crazy, thinking that i am superwoman or what, i ended up with backaches and neck aches because the area was so small for my long body to stretch!! so i had to curl up sleeping..
sleep curl = no good for thy great.
i paid a visit to a friend today. i wish he’d be in my dreams tonight to tell me how he is right now.
the worst thing in life that it can ever give you, is to take away the people around you.